Did you ever touch someone's ecstasy that was covered by you? Whatever the answer is, but I could feel it and charm with it. It was really a hearty touching for me. I saw him for the first time by the side of a road, worn a dirty-torn dress, about 18-19 years old guy, I guessed. I used to walk on that road to have an open space for my regular jogging. It is my passion of observing persons, especially who are somehow unrealistic or exception in nature. I myself made a curiosity about him. I was not sure that the reason whether his poverty had had made him so indifferent or other occurrence behind it. After inquiring silently for a few days, I came to know the guy had belonged to a rich family. Then what the reason can be behind his such an unusual nature, I thought. My heart touched again with sympathy I thought I had come to have the reason behind his such an unreality.
Starting an eye contact makes easy going
I do know eye contacting is a good way for being close to someone, and I did so frequently. But the guy was somehow shy as he did not a response instantly. Anyway, to cover the situation I took a break and did the same for days. At last the state of closing came to me, he responded, and I had have got the result. Gradually he started becoming intimate to me and I took the chance. As I often offered him a cup of tea or something as he might be liked. After some momentous days we became friendly each other. I think it is rightfully information in this context,that's when I was trying to be intimate with the guy, I noticed the local people's curiosity. Taking over all unusual situation, then I really got the point I succeed to have the fact of his being unusual or indifference. Actually the family of the guy's was rich and educated. But what was absent in that family is consciousness. The consciousness is about equality and proper honor to all. The discrimination was made the guy in fear and shy. Not only that but a barrier was made by attitude to him. By nature he was somehow blackly and short, it matters to him. The other members of the family made a neglecting attitude to him from his childhood. As a result he thought by himself as a different one. Even the outsider did not show much interest to him. The fact that I could enable to draw to the light is finally proved.
The lesson
I had a realization from my previous experience, That helped me to find out the problem is true what creates from an unconscious narrow minded people. But we have to know what and how create this kind of narrowing unconsciousness that can kill thousands of peoples' future successful lives. Education is not only a higher degree only, it deserves a lot like self-feeling, humanity, preserving right for everybody, responsibility for everyone and overall to ensure equality. If the conditions are hampered then an unhealthy, seek and poor society is to be privileged. In this lesson, we should follow and ensure the all facilities equally to all.
Ensure love and attention
In this universe there are varieties of human beings. Never judge comparing one's beauty, status, power or fame rather judge one a human being at first. And then show one respect and pay attention. No matters what one's status or other quality, rather matters one being human. If anyone is neglected by the society or country, it brings a mental disorder which caches the society in a aggressive mood. In this caches, you find a lot of examples prevail in different corners of a society. Finally, if you are wise, you should be considerate to every person with a respect.
However, to get something pay something whatever else. The best return is love and attention. People like to have an importance and ecstasy by nature. With your beauty try to make an ecstasy to others, It means the beauty of humanity, no doubt it is the greatest beauty. Help the friends and family, love your beloved one, grow attention to you children. Overall be responsible to your parents and elders. You must find the purity of beauty of your success life.
Misbah Farazi
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