A true firendship

What should be our dealing with a true friendship? It should have some of  very interesting answers. The phrase of 'a true friendship' is really difficult to explain in a word. True friendship is a term of justifying many ways indeed. In this respect, it can be said that we always try to go for achieving prosperity. To say, we feel from our consciousness a real friend, but the fact is we do not consider the way of having a reality of making a friend. Actually, a friendship can be build up in the proper practicing of behavior. A friendship is not a product which we can be able to buy in the market place.
If we do not feel someone who stays beside us, we no need to be actor as a friend. To say, its just time wasting. Friendship builds up in a real feeling, faith, love and, altogether it matters an understanding. The understanding results of  a friendship as well as a sweet relationship which ultimately demands one to live-together for a life time. A harmony with a same mentality could attract one another and, a friendship might be establish. However, a true friendship is a concept of a faithful relationship that covers the strong faith, love, and interest.

Importance of a friendship

When it comes to the fact to a friendship, a lot of conversation or debates might be continued to establish the concept. We often suffer from loneliness, to reduce or to deduct our loneliness a friendship can be helpful. Human being is social and they love to live in a group where relationship is important. With a same strategic lifestyle could be built up  a gorgeous lifestyle along with a friendship.

In this case, everybody likes to have a dependency with establishing a faith. If a friendship do not meet the expectations, a breakup is obvious. At this point of view, everyone should wait for a period of judging everything which each-other expect from them. There might have a unique solution to have a true friendship and, that could be nothing keeping hide behind their life-story. Another step could be taken before making a friendship and, that should be held a conversation between them. After going through the basic standers, it should be reminded that everyone could have been mistaken. So, without depending on a serious issue both of them should continue their relationship. 

Keep holding a friendship

As we could have a perception, a friendship is unavoidable in our lifelong process. We must have some effective policies which could have helped us to hold on the value of  a friendship. We could make a real friendship or relationship in-which everything should have exposed. I mean, both sides should be helpful for a realization to each other. Sometimes, sacrificing mind is essential to hold on a true friendship. In some occasions, one should honor other's choice. In short, to continuing a friendship both sides should be considerate. In addition, a compromising mind could conquer on's heart. So. let's keep continue a real friendship for shake of the each sides.     

Not to impose an opinion

As a human being everyone is creative and, so everybody loves to have one's freedom of choice. In this case, one should not impose any specific choice. On the other hand, both sides should have a freedom to expose with their creativity. Don't a mistake overtaking the sensitive issues. Support each-other in a polite conversation or behavioral attitude.

To consider a mistake   

No person is free from faults or mistakes, so only a considering attitude can make a strong relationship.  Everyone should think the reality. No one should waste one's time thinking about a misconduct. Try to adjust every crucial moment and, share everything with each-other so that no misunderstanding might be grown up.  

To share the problem  

It is always wise to share a problem with your partner. To do so you can minimize the misunderstanding with a free frank conversation. Make easy any bad situation. Present you easy and be frank to have a chat with your friend or partner. Frankness is a tonic for sharing things that created the misunderstanding.

To overlook things 

Do not take things seriously always, sometimes you should overlook events. By avoiding unimportant events make you feel better and, the process helps you to be continued a healthy friendship or relation.
However, there may have a lot of logic and regulations to hold on a good friendship. The important is to observe the persons who are related to you. At the same time, if possible you should clear to them about you friendship.

                                                         A friendship

Misbah Farazi

The beauty of a simplicity

The word simplicity which means something easy and comfortable in a manner. Here, we are going to talk about a personality with having simplicity. The beauty of simplicity might be the beauty of a personality. A person could be exposed a special attitude in which one's living styles could be clear and transparent. A personality where one's could have some extra non-artificial beauties.  The beauty that is not colorful but having a reality in the form of one's responses. 

A personality is an identity

It is certainly to say that one who achieves some qualities what shows one's identity. In a simple words, one's identity lies in one's personality. No, I am do not mean any qualification or designation of a person. Actually, I mean one's nature in a manner and in one's attitude. As a person that is how the person leads his/her lifestyle is his/her identity in a simple words. Personality largely depends on what the person is.

Simplicity helps to stop of being a greedy

No doubt, a going in a easy can be a habit of  reducing extra needs. If it is, you must have a quality of simplicity. Actually, a simple living doesn't need ornamentation. Extra ornamentation only makes a burden of living and, at the same time, it could be essential to have them a maintenance which draws one's extra attention. So, it is easily understandable that ,for this reason, one is to deprive from one's many other essential duties. Now, we could be concluded that simplicity helps to stop useless incoming.

Helps to avoid anxiety

If one used to a normal living, anxiety is mostly avoidable. When one becomes usual with one's easy and clean living, there is no chances to think of huge wealth or a high reputation. In this prospect, it should be illustrated that now a days an unhealthy competition runs in our society. But not everybody participates to such types of competition, and they are safe from anxiety. That is why, for one's safety one should not have an extra demand for prosperity.

 

Simplicity makes one happy

As a life can be turned into a anxiety free, it could be ensured to have a happy life stepping some of obligations. As a human being, there are endless possibilities, but most of the us thought is only a wealthy person could be happy. As to say, its a great wrong thought because a big wealthy person usually unhappy. They are not usually happy whereas they have a lot of duties which they themselves had created. But those could be seem to them unnecessary when they are to be driven on their property and, at last they spend the whole life without meeting basic needs.  

 Makes easy to come nearer to the common people

Simplicity works as a tonic to go to the common people with is so important as a smooth living. Sharing sorrows and happiness with the local people is one of the important duties. Making a bonding of a common relationship simplicity works well. Normal and intimating attitude exposes to the people whereas one runs a simple living. The style of that living ensures to the society a transparent consideration which is helpful to contribute a lot to a society. And, a contribution mostly appreciated by the settlers. The ways of altogether make a beautiful happy environment within the locality. Moreover, a simple lifestyle reduces the sorrows and pains.  

As when one becomes greedy or aggressive, it must influence with one's works and activities and parallelly on appearance. On the other hand, one's good thought and activities in the same way influence one's personality along with appearance. This calculation helps us to reach a decision that our thoughts and works are our images and the images the identities.

However, the researchers, on this purpose, work a lot and they have found the indications of thoughts and works of a person in his appearance. When you can achieve the love from your surroundings, a lovely reflection sticks on your appearance as so your work, says the specialist. We do have the result the same from our experience. They added, to lead a life with simplicity can bring happiness, happy faces reflect a beauty of also personality.

The best look is the natural look 

  However, when you create pressure on some natural objects, it turns into a different look and at the same way it loses its natural beauty. At this point of view, the best look is the natural look. We the human being like to explore things around us, to be close to other, to love and to have love. But to do so, we have to have some qualities in which an attraction works. The best attraction is to be lovely to other's as they feel a close friendship with you. But to achieve that quality, we need to be practiced and, you gradually might be own such a quality

Observe things around and love them.
Be close to your friends, relatives, and neighbor.
Always keep a cordial and friendly mood up to the general people.
Do not be the reason of boredom.

Try to take positively what love your friends and family.
Practice a simple living.
Always think the good and do so.
Think the result of works before doing it.
Speak what you love but do not hurt others.
Be logical and smiling.

Misbah Farazi

Builds up a reading habit

Knowing is knowledge. And, that is why we should build up a regular reading habit. Most of us think about it's difficulty to have a regular activity to form as a habit. But it is not at all. For a consciousness, I can tell say, it should be one of the essential form of habits. Only that need to focus on our interest that could run. A regular reader can be able to think about things whereas there is no one could interrupt in thinking.

   

Focus on your interest

We know, everybody preserves some interest in some queries. That goes through the logic, we have some specific interests what we love to have an achievement. We cloud get them into our reading habit. By reading about our interesting events with forming a regular habit it is easy for one. Reading habit such a habit which increases our interest form one to another event. As a whole, we could consider the reading habit one of the most important habits.

The ways of making a reading habit

Though every habit depends on our interest, there are some habits we could build up gathering our knowledge. Whereas we want or not, we could be keep a book with us. On our moving hours we could have got a leisure moment and that moment could be valued in reading. We should keep some books with us when we set up our mind for a long journey. In the long journey we have the chances of getting some extra time that usually we have nothing to do. In this situation we should continuing something reading more. When we go to our work place, we also may get to run the habit.  

Here is another trip that you can find a suitable one to enhance your interest in regular reading. You can start reading the diaries of famous persons, that can help you build up concentration. Actually whatever you like to choose for reading.

This good habit gives you many windows of thinking, once you habitual in reading, you find a new taste of life where endless beauty is waiting for you.
A regular reader knows many excellent norms of simplicity. In this sense, I mean reading lovers never go for unnecessary glittering that may hamper the smooth run on life or may hamper others chances of freedom. However, a regular reader gets every beauty of life in and out of it.

Quality reading

Now you need to run on the quality reading whereas you are a regular reader. Justify each speech of the chapters after having finished reading. As our brain always guides a logical result, our level of reading jumps up to a more inquest of thinking, and thus we find better levels of reading topics. A lot of reading helps us finding the quality concepts, and this process takes us to a higher experienced reader. To find the storage of books we can take help the browsing internet now a days. There is a huge of collections that we might have chosen for our own taste. At the same time, there are many websites that could help us finding specific quires.

Enriching our reading skills  

However, I must say that skill comes from a reading habit. In this sense, with getting a vast knowledge from our reading that encourages us to learn more and, we must be capable to go deeper thought. The habit makes us an expert reader in a simplicity . Though enrichment is a continuous process, reading habit shows us how to be satisfied in a living.

Misbah Farai