Paying importance to every person

 Without making a philosophical argument, we should pay attention to every person. You may think why I am advising you to keep up this practice. Okay, now let's we go through an explanation why we should do so and how a society could be benefited by paying attention to everybody as it possible as we can. Science says that when you pay attention to another person, they will naturally start paying attention to you. It is a natural thing. Being able to get close to other people while respecting them to express and develop yourself can something be a challenge to your overall success. Above all, you are immobile without human participation. And so you can't ignore anyone. If you think about it in a very simple sense, the people around you are also moved in some way by your laughter and your success. Your clean behavior stirs their minds and brains.  

Same value

 A person might not have the same status as you deserve, but he/she must have some exception quality. Considering this every person deserve the same value. The variety qualities they deserve that you should learn a lot. That's why you could have an opportunity to get something new from a stranger. I do not mean you have to reach person to person for learning the varieties, I try to make a sense the importance of learning a person. Because knowing a person makes a sense of knowing yourself.

If you are a businessman, you need to go to other persons. At the same time, the person can deal with you for a another purpose. In this case, you have to have a requirement of  a personality that the person owns. In other cases, you may be a politician or an employee, you have to need to deal with persons, so you should have to gather knowledge about specific quality. In this object you should have know the technique of easygoing to the all class of the people.

If you think a little deeper, you will be able to realize the benefit of being important to everyone very realistically. In fact, apart from the human perspective, it has immense benefits and potential, which cannot be avoided. We will discuss this step by step here. 

Practice simplicity

Practicing a clear mood of simplicity in your characteristic behavior, it matters you have an advantage to touch the human soul. Though a human mind carries some strange taste and feelings, most of  the human beings feel comfortable to go through a state of simplicity. With unknown persons or in different areas you may have got a hesitation to adopt with them or there. In the most cases, for a new comer it is not easy  to go through. In considering a special career, if you have carried on some simple but special qualities, it will be easy to meet up the new people. In fact, people love to have a usual tendency that they are familiar with. On the other hand, in the cases of new areas which demand an adjustment with livings of varieties. You should have collected information and weather focus previously. 

Importance of every person

Actually we are discussing about the importance to everybody. No doubt everybody deserve a value of one's own. You consider the value or not, can be useless. Rather useful to you to be soft on this truth. Now the question is what should be the manner or technique that you allow to apply. Easy going, yes easy going is important to have a confidential environment. At this point of view, you can welcome someone saying 'hi' or 'hello'. But such a welcoming word would be receivable after meeting twice or thrice, It means that you had already have met that person with eye contacting before. In some cases, you bade someone good morning, good afternoon or good evening e.t.c. Those are for initial meetings. When you can able to attraction the persons, they must do the same. In fact, there are many ways to be friendly with an unknown or a new comer, it is mostly conceivable indeed.     

Take everybody importantly you meet with. Listen to him with a concentration, and share your ideas with them. Actually, I want to say when you will become a practiced hand with these norms, you must feel the beauty of the treasures that come from person to person. On the other hand, if you love to think ethically, there also have a gift for you. In fact, behind of your good connections with the people, a gift that is certainly a heavenly peace.

However, human beings are equally important in thinking and developing the best human beings in creation. It does't matter whether you agree or not, but if you don't agree, your losses will be heavy regardless of what you consider. So let us learn to value to everybody in the spirit of a beautiful and harmonious world.

Misbah Farazi       

       

Touching heart

Did you ever touch someone's ecstasy that was covered by you? Whatever the answer is, but I could feel it and charm with it. It was really a hearty touching for me. I saw him for the first time by the side of a road, worn a dirty-torn dress, about 18-19 years old guy, I guessed. I used to walk on that road to have an open space for my regular jogging. It is my passion of observing persons, especially who are somehow unrealistic or exception in nature. I myself made a curiosity about him. I was not sure that the reason whether his poverty had had made him so indifferent or other occurrence behind it. After inquiring silently for a few days, I came to know the guy had belonged to a rich family. Then what the reason can be behind his such an unusual nature, I thought. My heart touched again with sympathy I thought I had come to have the reason behind his such an unreality.

Starting an eye contact makes easy going

I do know eye contacting is a good way for being close to someone, and I did so frequently. But the guy was somehow shy as he did not a response instantly. Anyway, to cover the situation I took a break and did the same for days. At last the state of closing came to me, he responded, and I had have got the result. Gradually he started becoming intimate to me and I took the chance. As I often offered him a cup of tea or something as he might be liked. After some momentous days we became friendly each other. I think it is rightfully information in this context,that's when I was trying to be intimate with the guy, I noticed the local people's curiosity. Taking over all unusual situation, then I really got the point  I succeed to have the fact of his being unusual or indifference. Actually the family of the guy's was rich and educated. But what was absent in that family is consciousness. The consciousness is about equality and proper honor to all. The discrimination was made the guy in fear and shy. Not only that but a barrier was made by attitude to him. By nature he was somehow blackly and short, it matters to him. The other members of the family made a neglecting attitude to him from his childhood. As a result he thought by himself as a different one. Even the outsider did not show much interest to him. The fact that I could enable to draw to the light is finally proved. 

 

The lesson

I had a realization from my previous experience, That helped me to find out the problem is true what creates from an unconscious narrow minded people. But we have to know what and how create this kind of narrowing unconsciousness that can kill thousands of peoples' future successful lives. Education is not only a higher degree only, it deserves a lot like self-feeling, humanity, preserving right for everybody, responsibility for everyone and overall to ensure equality. If the conditions are hampered then an unhealthy, seek and poor society is to be privileged. In this lesson, we should follow and ensure the all facilities equally to all.

Ensure love and attention 

In this universe there are varieties of human beings. Never judge comparing one's beauty, status, power or fame rather judge one a human being at first. And then show one respect and pay attention. No matters what one's status or other quality, rather matters one being human. If anyone is neglected by the society or country, it brings a mental disorder which caches the society in a aggressive mood. In this caches, you find a lot of examples prevail in different corners of a society. Finally, if you are wise, you should be considerate to every person with a respect.  

However, to get something pay something whatever else. The best return is love and attention. People like to have an importance and ecstasy by nature. With your beauty try to make an ecstasy to others, It means the beauty of humanity, no doubt it is the greatest beauty. Help the friends and family, love your beloved one, grow attention to you children. Overall be responsible to your parents and elders. You must find the purity of beauty of your success life.   

Misbah Farazi    

Humane fantasy

Every realistic comes up with an imaginary at first, then man tries things to turn it into reality. Even some things seemed like fantasy to us, but later people turned them into reality along that path. Some types of fantasy creates in our brain, it may have a real shape. Now am going to talk on a subject that somehow may seem fantasy to you. If  the world were such that everyone would have equal freedom of speech, no one would have the right to beat or kill anyone, everyone would have the right to live as they wished, on one could impose their will on other, and no one would have the right to do anything that would cause financial or physical harm to others. So what is wrong said, what is this humane fantasy? The reservoir of endless demand is the movement of the human brain. Where unlimited desire resides. Desires are the forces that keep people moving forward. The sad fact is that most of the wishes are blocked by the ruling class. However, a truly humane world can only come from the approval of all desires that do not causes physical or financial harm to others. But we will ever get this humane world! I wonder if these simple wants or desires can be called humane fantasy. If you ask, feel free to say absolutely not. Because man is born with an independent being. Only man has the power or consideration to judge good or bad. Since man had already conquered the rudimentary stages of civilization, the crimes of civilization, the crimes of primitive times had already been universally abhorred and shunned. And so now there is no need to explain big crimes as crimes. People know it, and therefore, society or the state will apply its punishment or prevention method very naturally. Then why imaginary and hypothetical things should be punished. If this situation continues then the ombudsman is as ineffective as we can think of in any humane way.

Fantastic indeed!

Spontaneous pleasure is a matter of great importance, proven to nourish the mind and body. So it is necessary to regular employ yourself in the presences of such pleasures. As your willpower to overcome the fatigue of living, it should be also addicted. So there can be no restrictive laws that stop your dream of happiness. Enjoying the joy and pleasure of meeting with friends is conducive to good health and longevity. Enjoying imaginary occasions creates a sense of pleasure in the human brain, which has a beneficial effect on the mind and mood. Sometimes traveling or running around with you imaginary companion and at the same time going out of reality and having pleasant thoughts also help to relieve your fatigue. To be honest, let your imagination run wild with something you can't do but love, and you'll find yourself going through a really blissful state. It is true that this state not only affects your mind but also refreshes your body. According to psychologies it is called mental exerciser.

Visiting

It is really fantastic if we tour somewhere. Unknown charms us to feel and to approach. Feelings and approaching to the new places or people plays a tune like a mind fresh tonic. For this reason, a physician often prescribes you visiting a new place. As it is proved, we should not have any hesitation to take a tour periodically. But our boundaries do not always allow us to take such a useful tonic. 

A new environment

 A new environmental surroundings could give you a fresh feeling that makes your working speed. Then start taking an experiment now. I'm sure after making a tour you must agree with me. Listen, think simply an arrangement and start going for somewhere close to your residence as an experiment. It is no need always a gorgeous arrangement. as such an arrangement. Being simple and maintaining simplicity  ensures your easy going. But in this case, you should carry some of your essential usages, like drinking water or important medicine.

Simply approach the fantasy

When you reach a new place and you feel different environment, you feel an encouragement to observe and to gather ideas spontaneously. Look around and take a fresh breath. Touch the leaves and flowers if there are. Try to watch some little creatures that you find from your observation. Spend some moment with them. Meet with people around you. Remember, local living people can not make a close touch to you as they feel hesitation. A new place a new experience and the experience helps you taking off your boredom and tiresome condition. If you go close to them you must feel fantastic. This is the reality of fantasy.

However, we should remember fantasy is not only live in a imaginary, but it exists in you deep feeling. Romance and fantasy is very helpful for your metal health. In this discussion, I try to make an idea of fantasy that comes to you with your well consideration. 

Misbah Farazi