Paying importance to every person

 Without making a philosophical argument, we should pay attention to every person. You may wonder why I am advising you to keep up this practice. Okay, let's go with an example of why we should do so and how a society could benefit by paying attention to everybody as we can. Science says that when you pay attention to another person, they will naturally start paying attention to you. It is a natural. Being close to other people while respecting them to express and develop yourself. It can something be a challenge to your overall success. Above all, you are immobile without human participation. And so you can't ignore anyone. If you think of it in a simple sense, the people around you are also moved in some way by your laughter and your success. Your clean behavior stirs their minds and brains.  

Same value

A person might not have the same status as you deserve, but he/she must have some exceptional quality. Considering this every person deserves the same value. The variety of qualities they deserve that you should learn a lot. That's why you could have an opportunity to get something new from a stranger. I do not mean that you have to reach person to person to learn the varieties, I try to make a sense of the importance of learning a person. Because knowing a person makes a sense of knowing yourself.

If you are a businessman, you need to go to other persons. At the same time, the person can deal with you for another purpose. In this case, you have to have a requirement of a personality that the person owns. In other cases, you may be a politician or an employee, you need to deal with people, so you should gather knowledge about specific qualities. In this object, you should know the technique of easygoing to all classes of people.

If you think deeper, you realize the benefit of being important to everyone very realistically. In fact, apart from the human perspective, it has immense benefits and potential, which cannot be avoided. We will discuss this step by step here. 

Practice simplicity

Practicing a clear mood of simplicity in your characteristic behavior gives you an advantage to touch the human soul. Though the human mind carries some strange tastes and feelings, most humans feel comfortable going through a state of simplicity. With unknown persons or in different areas you may have hesitation to adopt with them or there. In most cases, for a newcomer, it is not easy to go through. In considering a special career, if you have some simple but special qualities, it will be easy to meet new people. In fact, people love to have a usual tendency to be familiar with it. On the other hand, in the cases of new areas which demand an adjustment with livings of varieties. You should have collected information and weather focus previously. 

Importance of every person

Actually, we are discussing the importance of everybody. No doubt everybody deserves a value of one's own. Whether you consider the value or not, it can be useless. Rather useful to you to be soft on this truth. Now the question is what should be the manner or technique that you allow to apply. Easy going, yes easy going is important to have a confidential environment. From this point of view, you can welcome someone by saying 'hi' or 'hello'. But such a welcoming word would be receivable after meeting twice or thrice, It means that you had already met that person with eye contact before. In the same, you bade someone good morning, good afternoon, or good evening, etc. Those are for initial meetings. When you attract the persons, they must do the same. In fact, there are many ways to be friendly with an unknown or a newcomer, it is mostly conceivable, indeed.     

Take everybody importantly you meet with. Listen to him with concentration, and share your ideas with them. Actually, I want to say when you become a practiced hand with these norms, you must feel the beauty of the treasures that come from person to person. On the other hand, if you love to think ethically, there is also a gift for you. In fact, behind your good connections with the people like a gift that is certainly a heavenly peace.

However, human beings are important in thinking and developing the best human beings in creation. It doesn't matter whether you agree, but if you don't agree, your losses will be heavy regardless of what you consider. So let us learn to value everybody in the spirit of a beautiful and harmonious world.

Misbah Farazi       

       

Touching heart

Did you ever touch someone's ecstasy that was covered by you? Whatever the answer is, I could feel it and charm with it. It was really a hearty touching for me. I saw him for the first time by the side of a road, wearing a dirty-torn dress, about an 18-19-year-old guy, I guessed. I used to walk on that road to have an open space for my regular jogging. It was my emotion to observe people, especially those who are somehow unrealistic or exceptionally unnatural. I made a curiosity about him. I was not sure that the reason whether his poverty had had made him so indifferent or other occurrence behind it. After inquiring silently for a few days, I discovered the guy had belonged to a rich family. I tried to find out what the reason could have been behind his unusual nature, I thought. My heart touched again with sympathy. I thought I had come to have the reason behind his unreality.

Starting eye contact makes it easy-going

I know contacting the eye is a good way to be close to someone, and I did so frequently. But the guy was somehow shy as he did not respond instantly. Anyway, to cover the situation I took a break and did the same for days. At last, the state of the closing came to me, and he responded, and I got the result. Gradually he started becoming intimate to me and I took the chance. I often offered him a cup of tea or something as he might be liked. After some momentous days, we became friendly with each other. I think it is rightfully information in this context, that's when I was trying to be intimate with the guy, and I noticed the local people's curiosity. Taking over all unusual situations, I really got the point. I succeed in having the fact of his being unusual or indifferent. Actually, the family of the guy was rich and educated. But what was absent in that family was consciousness. The consciousness is about equality and proper honor to all. The discrimination made the guy fearful and shy. Not only that but a barrier was made by their attitude to him. By nature he was somehow blackly and short, it matters to him. The other persons in that family had a negligible attitude toward him from childhood. As a result, he thought of himself as a different one. Even the outsider did not show much interest in him. The fact that I could enable to draw to the light is finally proven. 

 The lesson

I had a realization from my previous experience that helped me to find out the problem is true which had created an unconscious narrow-minded person. But I had to know what, and how it could have been created. This kind of narrowing unconsciousness can kill thousands of people's future successful lives. Education can not only be a higher degree but also deserves a lot like self-feeling, humanity, preserving rights for everybody, responsibility for everyone, and ensuring equality. If the conditions are hampered then an unhealthy, seek and poor society is to be privileged. From this lesson, we should ensure that all facilities to all are equal.

Ensure love and attention 

In this universe, there are varieties of human beings. Never judge comparing one's beauty, status, power or fame rather judge one a human being at first. And then show one respect and pay attention. No matter what one's status or quality, rather it matters one being human. If anyone is neglected by the society or country, it brings a mental disorder that caches society in an aggressive mood. In this cache, you find a lot of examples prevailing in different corners of society. Finally, if you are wise, you should be considerate to every person with respect.  

However, to get something pay something whatever else. The best return is love and attention. People like to have importance and ecstasy by nature. With your beauty try to make an ecstasy to others, It means the beauty of humanity, no doubt it is the greatest beauty. Help friends and family, love your loved one, and pay attention to your children. Overall be responsible to your parents and elders. You must find the purity of beauty of your successful life.   

Misbah Farazi    

Humane fantasy

Every realistic comes up with an imagination at first, then man tries things to turn it into reality. Even some things seemed like fantasy to us, but later people turned them into reality along that path. Some types of fantasy are created in our brain, they may have a real shape. Now talk on a subject that, someone may seem to fantasize you. Think on the way simply that, things in a simplicity. If the world were such that everyone would have equal freedom of speech, no one would have the right to beat or kill anyone, everyone would have the right to live as they wished, no one could impose their will on another, and no one would have the right to do anything that would cause financial or physical harm to others. So what is wrong? What is this humane fantasy? The thoughts are the movement of the human brain. Where unlimited desire resides. Desires are the forces that keep people moving forward. The fact is that most of the wishes are blocked by the ruling class. However, a truly humane world can only come from the approval of all desires that do not cause physical or financial harm to others. But we will never get this humane world! I wonder if these simple wants or desires can be called humane fantasies. If you ask, feel free to say absolutely not. Because man is born with an independent being. Only man has the power or consideration to judge good or bad. Since man had already conquered the rudimentary stages of civilization, the crimes of civilization, the crimes of primitive times had already been universally abhorred and shunned. And so now there is no need to explain big crimes as crimes. People know that it is and therefore, society or the state will apply its punishment or prevention method very naturally. Then why imaginary and hypothetical things should be punished. If this situation continues then the ombudsman is as ineffective as we can think of in any humane way.

Fantastic indeed!

Spontaneous pleasure is a matter of great importance, proven to nourish the mind and body. So it is necessary to regularly employ yourself in the presence of such pleasures. As your willpower to overcome the fatigue of living, it should be addictive. So there can be no restrictive laws that stop your dream of happiness. Enjoying the joy and pleasure of meeting with friends is conducive to good health and longevity. Enjoying imaginary occasions creates a sense of pleasure in the human brain, that contains beneficial effects on the mind and mood. Sometimes traveling or running around with your imaginary companion, at the same time, going out of reality and having pleasant thoughts also help to relieve your fatigue. To be honest, let your imagination run wild with something you can't do but love, and you'll find yourself going through a really blissful state. It is true that this state not only affects your mind but also refreshes your body. According to psychologies, it is called a mental exerciser.

Visiting

It would be really fantastic if we tour somewhere. Unknown charms us to feel and to approach. Feelings and approaching new places or people play a tune like a mind-fresh tonic. For this reason, a physician often prescribes you visiting a new place. As it is proven, we should not have any hesitation to take a tour periodically. But our boundaries do not always allow us to take such a useful tonic. 

A new environment

 New environmental surroundings give you a fresh feeling that makes your working speed. Then start taking an experiment now. I'm sure after making a tour you will agree with me. Listen, think simply of an arrangement and start going for somewhere close to your residence as an experiment. There is no need for a gorgeous arrangement. Being simple and maintaining simplicity ensures you are easygoing. But in this case, you should carry some essential usages, like drinking water or important medicine.

Simply approach the fantasy.

When you reach a new place and feel a different environment, feel an encouragement to observe and to gather ideas spontaneously. Look around and take a fresh breath. Touch the leaves and flowers if there are. Try to watch some little creatures that you find from your observation. Spend some moment with them. Meet with people around you. Remember, local living people can not make close touch with you as they feel hesitation. A new place a new experience and the experience helps you take off your boredom and tiresome condition. If you go close to them you must feel fantastic. This is the reality of fantasy.

However, we should remember fantasy lives in our imagination but exists in deep feelings. Romance and fantasy are helpful for your mental health. In this discussion, I try to make an idea of fantasy that comes to you with your consideration. 

Misbah Farazi